The Charm of Lolita

It is indisputable that this novel is at times repulsive, and it is difficult to get past the fact that we are reading about the relationship between a middle-aged man and a 12-year-old girl.  So, why can’t I put it down?  I am admittedly captivated by Humbert Humbert’s prose, and perhaps he even possesses some charm. Also, the chapters are so rich in detail, references, and allusions; unlike other novels, I feel as though Lolita requires my full focus and attention, and that is a characteristic I love about the novel.  It is as if we are piecing together a puzzle, and Nabokov so masterfully crafted Lolita that we discover clues in every chapter.  I am eager to discover the solution to this puzzle

Is it possible to look beyond the pedophiliac nature of Lolita and H.H’s relationship and appreciate it as true, romantic love?  I am conflicted on this question.  On one hand, Lolita is much more mature than an average 12-year-old; she has experience with sex, and she has lost all members of her immediate family.  I don’t think H.H. took away her innocence or deprived her of her childhood, for external factors and other individuals did that.  In addition, it in inarguable that fate has indeed brought Humbert and Lolita together, and it can be seen as romantic that they only have each other.  They are now sole companions, traveling through the United States together—romantic, right?  However, on the other hand, I ask myself whether or not a 12-year-old knows what love is.  So, can we see this as a true story?  Is it possible to look beyond the age difference?  As I read the novel, I find myself viewing it more and more as a love story.  H.H.’s doting, caring passion and Lolita’s attachment and affection give this story charm and appeal.  I admit Humbert Humbert has captured my attention and earned a great deal of sympathy.

In addition, I wonder if the relationship between Europe and America is meant to parallel with the relationship between Humbert Humbert and Lolita.  Humbert Humbert, who represents Europe, is older, more mature, and perhaps more sophisticated and civilized than Lolita.  Meanwhile, Lolita, or America, is younger, less mature, and more barbaric.